huge fight with my partner this morning. he is controlling, a bully and occasionally abusive and I finally decided to call refuge only to get their answering machine. now i keep thinking do i stay? do i go? is it really that bad? he isn't violent all the time but he has hit me and he has kicked me and he does put me down. i have kept this to myself for a while now as i have been so uncertain of the rammifications. i know what i would tell a friend in this situation so why do i hesitate? i would love to run away but then there are soooooo many things to consider (money, work, childcare the list goes on)
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