Weve been together for 15yrs and all that time .my dh talks more to his mother in a day than he does to me!! [she lives abroad thankfully for me ]he phones her at least once a day plus skpes her three /four times a day.. if his mother says /suggests something then of course it has to be right even though i could have suggested the same thing weeks before and he disagreed..ive suggested to him i don think its such a healthy relationship with his mom..he s tied to her apron strings if you know what i mean!! she lays the guilt trip on him and says stuff like
now youve got a family you don t love me anymore and dont care about me..she`s very manipulative and it causes lots of problems between us [i f you ask me shes been trying to split us up from day one and wants him all to herself[only child too ] he denies everything of course and now on top of it all she has announced hse coming to stay fo r4 weeks arrgh [runs to hide] Am i right to think this kind of almost obsessive realationship is not on[even on holiday he calls her several times a day!!] Ive always said to him theres always been three in this realtionship..he tells her everything too about us and does what she says!! he needs to grow up me thinks!!
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bambi06 · 30/10/2008 09:11
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