Of course you have to love, fancy, respect and trust your partner. My (ex-)partner and I, having been separated for a while and with it being a couple of years since we felt all the above in abundance, are considering reconciliation. The state we'd both be in financially - exacerbated by the current financial crisis - if we fully parted is a big factor for me in giving this a go, and I feel a bit ashamed of that. On a level it feels wrong, but a financially f*cked lone parent life full of money worries in the midst of a recession wouldn't be exactly "right" either - even if it had some kind of integrity about it.
There has been no violence or abuse in the past, and we are seeing a counsellor weekly to explore our stumbling blocks (including infidelity) and the possibility of trying again. Is it wrong for this kind of financially-based practical pragmatism to be a significant factor in trying to make a relationship work, rather than it being all about passion, romance, etc?
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The current economic climate is a factor for me in trying to make failed relationship work - is that wrong?
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BlueSuedeShoes · 15/10/2008 10:08
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