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Im so torn!

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spookycharlotte121 Sun 05-Oct-08 12:37:45

I have been seeing my current boyfriend for about 6 weeks or so now. We get along great, he is a really nice guy and although there has been a slight issue in the bedroom everything seems to be going well.
He does have some bad points but I have put this down to everyone not being perfect and is a million miles better thn my ex who pushed me around and stole my money. I am finding it quite hard getting used to a guy being nice to me and not being frightened of him which again has sparked a few issues but he has been very considerate and understanding when I have explained my reasons. So heres where the problem begins. Before I started seeing my bf I was really into another guy, Im pretty sure he knew how I felt about him but had just come out of a bad relationship himself and said he wasnt ready for another realationship. Was kinda gutted as I did really like him but resigned myself to the fact that he wasnt up for a relationship and just tried to move on. but now over the past few weeks a few text messages have been exchanged. He has made it clear that he is gutted that Im with someone else and that he likes me. I feel horrible. My bf is sweet and caring and I do like him but I also have feelings for this other guy and I know I have to choose one or the other but its never as simple as that iykwim. If it were that easy I would have dont it already.

This is so totally out of chracter for me and I would never cheat on my bf. I would never let it get that far but im still totally confused.

elmoandella Sun 05-Oct-08 21:06:30

this other guy just wants his cake and eat it.

i'd forget all about him. guarantee if you dumped your current fella this previous guy still wouldn't be interested in a proper relationship.

the grass isn't always greener. sounds to me like you have good pasture where you are. stop looking elsewhere and ask this previous guy to delete your number and you do the same.

skidoodle Sun 05-Oct-08 21:08:28

Pick neither.

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