I split up with my abusive ex over a year ago my dd has never had any relationship with him he never wanted a girl, already had 2 boys from previous who he worships and always put her down and belittled her I finally got the courage to leave when his abuse became worse towards her and violent towards me she has never wanted to see him since we split up but being intimidated by him I used to feel she should go cos he is her father but she makes herself ill over it and cries for days before going and when she comes home she says he has been moaning at her, she only ever goes for a few hours once a month but she really doesn't want to and I hate seeing her so upset she has always been my life and always will be today she maid herself so upset I told him she wouldn't be coming and he became very abusive again threatening me with all sorts and is now saying he is going to go to court and get a court order for her to go to him and stay over once a month she has not stopped sobbing what can I do she is nearly 9 years old has anyone been in a similar situation ? would the court allow him to do this as he has such abusive tendancies ? we are divorced already on the reasons of unreasonable behaviour where he has signed the papers to agree that he was violent towards me and abusive to my dd so the court would have this on record, I would never stop her seeing him if that was what she wanted but she really doesn't want to go I know I really need to go and see a solicitor but can't really afford one.
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