I have been with my partner or now ex partner for almost 8 years. We bought a house 6 and a half years ago. Its a joint mortgage. We have 2 girls together. About a month and a half ago he finished with me but he is still in the house, he refuses to sleep elsewhere and I can't afford to go anywhere as I have just started university. He says we have to live together until the market picks up and then we can sell but even then I am not going to be able to buy anywhere with 2 children and full time university. I am in such a mess with where to go from here, some people saying I won't have to leave house or sell it and others ssaying once sold may be able to get help through the government but I just don't know what to do. I am so confused as to what should happen. I just can't bear it anymore.
Things are such a mess here, he is really messing with my head and playing on it. He plays alot of mind games with me and things have been bad for the last 2 years but we have stuck it out. Even finishing with me he is twisting it all on me to take away the guilt.
Does anyone have a similar experience or know what I can do?
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jaffas118 · 27/09/2008 09:41
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