Basically when people say that having kids, they just don't have enough 'love' for everyone, kids and DH. I have 2 lovely boys and a wonderful DH. I love him to bits, but the boys take up so much of my time, I find that by the evening, I am so tired, I just want to be left alone, IYSWIM. I'm happy to sit with DH of an evening, but any mention of sex and I dread it. I just don't have it in me. I am very lucky that DH still finds me attractive and wants to have sex etc, not even just sex, he's just very affectionate and like lots of cuddles on sofa etc. But I just feel all 'cuddled out' after a day with my boys, who are 6 months and 2 yrs, so quite demanding.
Even in bed, I have almost got to the point where I can't bear him touching me, even just to lean over and say goodnight, I just feel like saying 'Oh FFS, leave me alone!!!'. I honestly do love him to bits, and I wouldn't be without him. I hate feeling like this.
I have heard/read other people feeling liek this,and I never understood it before, but now I know what they mean. I just feel like I give give give to my kids all day long, then I am expected to be up for sex in the evening, when I am just exhausted and want to go to bed.
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incredulous · 22/09/2008 14:50
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