Best friend of over 25 years- is on the verge of divorce and has been for years. We have talked for hours over it, but she has now had counseling for a while and tends not to confide in me so much as she says it confuses her- the counsellor is very directive, not impartial, and I tend to disagree with her at times.
anyway- they have had major upsets this weekend and I called her to try to see how she was. She said they have agreed to have a separation , but then
she basically stonewalled me- said it was because she feels upset- but I know that before we next talk she will have talked to someone else over it.
I asked her if it was because I tend to speak my mind- I don't always think she is in the right! - and she said not.
would you feel hurt? I feel she is keeping me at arms length and will only talk when it suits her- I know I have to respect that, but it does seem hurtful.
what would you feel?
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girlsnextdoor · 14/09/2008 18:14
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