I have been very happily married for 4 years, and I don't feel we have any real problems within the marriage. I love my dh very much but I keep having dreams sex/love themed dreams about an old flame; I say 'old flame' but it is actually someone from school days who was a boyfriend to my best friend.
I was head over heels in love with him when we were younger to the point where it was physically painful to be around him. After they split up we had a few drunken fumbling nights , but on the whole we were just good mates. I can honestly say this was the strongest infatuation I have ever felt.
He is a facebook friend, but after the intial 'getting back in touch' type chat/flirting , we don't really speak.
Last night dh and I had a fantastic night sexually, we really connected again. What happens? I end up dreaming about old flame! In the dreams I feel so happy when I'm physically close to him...arghhh why can't I get him out of my system!?
In the cold light of day I know him to be an arrogant, thirty something big kid, who I'm pretty sure never really felt anything near this for me. I don't know to move on from these silly dreams and forget the past, but how?
I have namechanged for this, as I would be mortified. Feels good to get this off my chest.
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Why do I keep having these dreams?
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eternaldweller · 09/09/2008 09:01
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