This may be a tad long but please bear with me. Moved into a lovely house last year, only drawback was the ugly lalandi (sp?) trees which surrounded the back garden - not a deal breaker as we loved the house. Moved in but the trees made everything very dark and depressing so we decided they had to go. Went around to neighbours to discuss and told them reasons etc. and although they were not too happy as it took away a lot of their privacy there was no argument. DH told them that if they had any concerns then please come and chat. They didn't. Trees came down, I have lovely light and a much bigger garden.
Walked into foodstore one day and heard people mouthing off about their neighbours taking down their trees (talking to another of our neighbours), saying our boys were being a nuisance as their balls kept coming over. One ball which I told the boys not to go around and retrieve (as didn't want to start bothering them) and if they wanted to return it they would throw over the fence. I was really hurt and just said 'hello' in a very loud voice. Lots of embarrassed faces and went home. Now they don't acknowledge us at all.
When we moved in we had them in for drinks and they seemed really ok.
Do I write them a letter to try and sort it out or just leave it.
The sad thing is if they had come and talked to us about their concerns DH would have come to some agreement around providing screening (obviously we would have paid 50% of the cost). DH not bothered if we don't speak but I feel awful as hate falling out with people. Any views?
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Flowertop · 08/09/2008 12:12
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