I have been with hubby now for 5 yrs, have a 2.75 yr old ds. It is really silly because I do not know if I still love my husband. He has not done anything wrong in particular, I know that marriages have ups and downs, but it seems to have been down a lot more than up lately.
He is a good man, he does housework, helps out with ds when possible.
I find myself picking rows with him just so that I can go off and have some time out. Little things that he has always done are really starting to annoy me. Today it really wound me up that he was eating with his mouth open and making noises. I seem to be picking on his unfairly.
We used to be a cuddly couple, but i cant stand it when he touches me at the moment.
He seems to think that everything is okay.
I do not have/fancy anyone else.
My sister has ds often to give us time together, but i just do not like spending time with him at the moment.
I am so confused because he has not done anything wrong. I feel as though I am stuck.
I personally do not believe in staying toegther just for the sake of ds, am i being unfair to dh, does anyone else feel like this, and has recovered from this. I need your advice because I feel so sad at the moment
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concerned · 09/02/2003 15:43
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