This is going to be condensed as I cant possibly remember it all in one message but I am feeling so hurt.
On monday night my husband told me he hated me, hated coming home to me, hated doing anything with me..... this was whilst putting our kids to bed. I was knackered, fed up as kids had been whiny/ill all day and just wanted the offer of him putting them into bed, dealing with the bouts of tears etc.
He came out with the classic' go to work then, if you cant stand being with them' followed by more nasty remarks. I managed to stay calm, to which he called me a smug self righteous bitch.
Forward to now and we have not spoken apart from essential stuff, I have come into the bedroom after I have made us dinner ( yes I know) and been asleep before he comes in.
He came in briefly tonight and has gone out to the gym.
He asked why I was in the bedroom and I said , to get out of his way , suprised he was bothered if he hated me so much. Well he just started shouting again, saying he couldnt be bothered with all this shit.... and stormed out.
Oour life is stressful, we have two young children, one disabled, little money , no family network to speak of. We do have cross words sometimes , and I always back down first, he never will. But this time Im not oing to, I have had enough. I know I say horrible things to him sometimes and always apologise straight after. But there is something not right about the way he says things to me
I am at a loss... sorry needed to get this out and just 'talk'
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Still no apology..........
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Gravitygirl · 06/08/2008 21:37
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