Before I got pregnant, DP had arranged to go away for a couple of weeks on a sports holiday with his best mate. He informed me they'd decided to go rather than asking if it was ok. When I found out I was pregnant (for the first time, we both really wanted it to happen and had been trying for a while), we realised they'd be away when I was 38 weeks pregnant so after me making a bit of a fuss, he did get his mate to move the holiday earlier.
My issues are:
- he's using 2 weeks of his annual leave with a mate rather than with me just before our first child is born - I'm feeling a bit annoyed that this means we don't get a proper holiday, just a week together in the UK.
- what if something happens to me/the baby while he's away? They won't have mobile reception for at least a few days of the trip and it would take about 24 hours for him to fly home.
- what if he has an accident - it's quite an extreme sports holiday and if he comes back with a broken arm or something, it would be pretty awkward.
I see all the awful dilemmas and problems on here and think maybe I'm being too difficult in comparison - everything else is great so should I just stop worrying/getting angry?