Lately I have had lots trouble with my self confidence in all areas of me and my wifes relationship.I have spoken to my wife regarding this but she keeps blameing herself.She recons i should see a doctor and i just laugh as i know the way my head works in time i know i will feel better as i have had spells like this in past when i dont feel to good about myself.How do i asure my wife that it is not her fault and for her to just accept that im feeling down atm.
My wife won't initiate in the bedroom. Me and my wife have been together for about 2 and half years and our bedroom department has always been healthy but within that time i think my wife has only ever initiated once.Atm i have no confidence in myself and am scared to make any sort of advances towards my wife in fear of rejection. Yesterday is good exsample all day wife seemed in good mood and in the mood normaly she just gives a peck when going out but instead she gave me very pashonate kiss.So on the evening decided to have an early night in hope that she might make some sort of advance but instead she goes to sleep. It hurts that my wife dont make any advances towards me and makes me feel unatractive and unwanted.
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Feel like my wife dont find me attractive and i have lost all confidence
mixbag · 29/07/2008 14:51
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