Hiya
I'm an incognito regular and wondered if anyone has the same problem and could help me?
It seems that whenever i get into a new relationship, i have a high sex drive and cant get enough of the fella. Anyway, once they move in etc, my sex drive goes waaaaay down hill and i'm just not interested any more! What's made it worse is the birth of our daughter nearly 8 months ago. Ever since i got pg i haven't fancied sex and i certainly dont really fancy it now either, 8 months down the line!
It's not that i dont love DP, i do, very much so, but it's almost as if once i was pg, the job of having sex had served it's purpose, if that makes sense. I do also enjoy it once we've got going but having said that, if he were to jump off suddenly and turn over and go to sleep i wouldn't be disappointed!
DP is younger than me and has quite a high sex drive and i find that i have to just pretend that i'm interested in "it" when he wants a bit of the other, so that i dont upset him. I can say no, of course, but i do feel bad for him if i turn him down too often. I love him dearly and want him to feel loved and to please him.
Has anyone got any tips on how i get my drive back? I dont want to feel like this forever!
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Has anyone seen my sex drive??
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LostLabido · 26/07/2008 22:25
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