Am I alone?
My DH is self employed and works from home. His job isn't particularly stressful, he doesn't work long hours and gives himself plenty of time off YET he has just left me to cook dinner, do bathtime and put our 2 DS's to bed alone while he goes out drinking with his friends. Our second DS is only 2 months old and I'm not getting much sleep at the moment but that doesn't seem to register with him, especially as he's sleeping in the spare room for now to avoid the disturbed nights.
I've tried talking to him about how tired I am and how I need his help but it doesn't seem to make any difference. He seems to think that his life can continue as before.
Does anyone else have the same problem and how did they deal with it? I am far from being a martyr and do not want to put up with this but nagging doesn't work so I need to find a productive way of sorting this out. Would really really appreciate any words of wisdom anyone can share...
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My DH seems to think that he can contine to lead his pre-children life - am I alone?
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manicmumsday · 23/07/2008 21:04
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