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anyone else's dh as bad as mine..... what can i do:?

(5 Posts)
Taxidriver Mon 21-Jul-08 21:26:09

he never picks dc's up from any events, his excuse was i organised for them to do such and such I shoudl pick them up.

i try to put my foot down, said to him tonight, as soon as he came in from work, it is your turn, ds needs picking up at 9.45 pm.

DH has gone off to bed. Normally he can't drive cos he has had a drink..

i dont know what to do. i feel like i am in the wrong for being a harridan but it is nt fair.

donovan Mon 21-Jul-08 23:54:49

What is your balance at home? are you equals in everything house work and money wise, or is he boss?

OldLadyKnowsNothing Tue 22-Jul-08 02:48:14

When you "organise" your childrens' "events", do you consult with DH at all? What are his working hours?

Taxidriver Tue 22-Jul-08 11:43:09

he is home at 5. now, after years of being home late.
he earns much more, i earn a quarter of him but although i do work everything else falls down to me, well apart from um, fixing things <<lots of broken things still unmended - typical man?>>

Taxidriver Tue 22-Jul-08 11:45:47

mumsnet is pretty powerful you know. as soon as i had typed the first post, he was up, picking up ds shock
even if i didnt have as many answers as i would have hoped, it still worked

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