Last night my DP was on PC when the phone rang and he went off to answer it, leaving his email inbox open on the screen.
Normally I'd just close it but a few emails caught my eye - they were from the dating site that we first met on a couple of years ago, offering him potential matches.
I can't believe he is still a member and evidently logs in.
I didn't dare snoop around too much, so I closed his email down, and created a profile for the site (I deleted mine when we became serious), which showed that he had logged in in the last 24 hours. Same profile he had when we met, "single", "no children" - we have a baby on the way late this year.
Not quite sure how to play this - haven't slept all night. Obviously don't want him to know I saw his emails (I know he would twist it around to make it look like I've been snooping), but I cannot get this out of my head.
I feel sick to my stomach.
Any suggestions?
No evidence of this in the history, so he's obviously deleted his tracks (the same way he does when he looks at the porn sites, but they still show up in the drop down address bar, which makes me laugh, because I don't care if he look at porn. I do, however, care if he is on the lookout for a new DP).
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I can't believe what I just found out - am I overreacting?
MyNewNameIsDifferent · 18/07/2008 06:10
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