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Bloody stroking his legs

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Dinosaursobsessedson · 23/02/2021 22:21

So tonight oh was sulking because I wouldn’t stroke/ massage his friggen legs!
It was nearing 7pm i needed to put my dc5 to bed, read with dc9.
Sort uniforms etc...
the dogs where on my knee wanting attention and i was enjoying a quick cuppa.
Anyone else have a need oh who wants to be pandered to who are oblivious to the night routine or chores..
Sometimes I think il be better single 😏

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harknesswitch · 23/02/2021 22:41

Tell him you'll stroke his legs after he's put the kids in the bath, read to them and put them to bed

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Dery · 23/02/2021 23:33

“Tell him you'll stroke his legs after he's put the kids in the bath, read to them and put them to bed”

This!

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MarkRuffaloCrumble · 23/02/2021 23:39

DP likes his arm stroked when I sit next to him on the sofa. I’d find it really ticklish and annoying but I do it for him. If he was demanding it and getting sulky when I didn’t he could fuck off. But he also rubs my feet for about half an hour every time too, so he earns it. What does your OH do for YOU?

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Dinosaursobsessedson · 24/02/2021 05:54

@MarkRuffaloCrumble not a lot in the week as he works full time & I don’t
Maybe a cuppa or occasional rub my feet

@Dery lol 🤪as if

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hellywelly3 · 24/02/2021 06:18

Tell him your working day isn’t over until the kids are in bed. If he helps with that you’ll have some energy left to rub his bloody legs

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YellowandGreenToBeSeen · 24/02/2021 06:23

What a massive turn off - a needy man child who can’t put his own kids to bed.

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DinosaurDiana · 24/02/2021 06:27

He sounds like a child who wants petting by his mother. Ew.

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