I was in a relationship last year, im wanting some advice on a few situations that arose, he didnt work but i did, i once went to my dads for tea, he was txing me quite a bit, i put my phone in the kitchen whilst i had ny tea, got talking to my dad about the past, when i was little and stuff, my phone was on silent, 2 hours went past, i looked at my phone and there was 16 missed calls, i answered when he rang again and he was screaming saying why hadn’t i answered phone he was worried id been in car accident (god knows why) i left my dads and when i got home he turned up again shouting and going mad, if its my day off work and i go shopping or call to my sisters he rings me and asks me where ive been when i explain he will question me a couple of times and want to know exact times. He constantly tells me about myself saying i will never last with another man and no man will put up with me, he says this because there has been numerous occasions like ive mentioned above and when he does this i shut down on him and go quiet.i work full time and all i do is go shopping clean my house and spend time with my children (who arnt to him) when im not working. My best friend who ive been friends with 16 years is a man, nothing has ever gone off between us we r just really good friends hes in s relationship with a woman and they have a son together he called in for a cup of tea with his son the other day and he went barmy that i didnt tell him straight away while he was here and that i told him later that day. Constantly questions me about him even though ive told him over and over theres nothing going off, his girlfriend is a friend of mine too. Another incident is my friend has just found out shes got breast cancer, she called to see me to explain about her treatment and stuff and whilst she was here i had 33 missed calls and 15 txs calling me horrible names because i hadnt answered the phone. I know deep down this isnt normal behaviour and ive tried speaking with him but hes never to blame ever, its always my fault, my dad and sister hate him and are scared for me with the way hes going off all the time, i feel like he has to constantly be in touch with me 24/7 is it me or is it him because he will not accept fault. Ive broken up with him yet since tgen he rings and txs and still wants to know my every move. I feel like im going mad. I lve thought about changing my number but theres a strong chance he will turn up to my house showing off.
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It’s definitely him!
He sounds very scary and abusive.
I have no experience so have no clue what to advise in this situation but if you report your thread and ask @MNHQ to move it to the relationships board you will find loads of really helpful advice from some very knowledgeable people.
You are well rid of him, I just hope you can stop him bothering you 
It's him. Please stay away from him and stay safe OP. There are so many red flags here. Change your number. If he comes round call the Police. Block, block and block again. 
Finish the relationship . He is not a healthy person .
Walk away don't look back . Better is coming .
I hope your friend gets better soon .
Take care of yourself x
Please call the police.
He is a dangerous man.
Please have nothing more to do with him.
He is a horror.
The police will help you.
Women's Aid will give you advice.
Block him on EVERYTHING.
GET ADVICE FROM THE POLICE.
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