Our marriage has many, many problems with it(!) - this one seems trivial but is really annoying me.
I try not to be like so many of the men I hear about on here and do my equal share around the house. But whatever I do I get criticised for not doing it right. Usually my DW will then just take over and do it - making me feel like a naughty kid. We’re talking about hoovering, ironing, using the washing machine. It’s usually trivial stuff like putting the glasses on the wrong side of the dishwasher. I’ve no idea how I’m doing it wrong - if I ask what program to put one of her stuff on the washing machine I just get a huff and ‘I’ll do it myself’. Equally annoying is that I then get criticised for not doing my share of the housework
How do I bring this up without sounding like I’m moaning? Or how do I just let it go?
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Constantly being belittled for housework
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StonedRoses · 17/01/2021 15:40
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