Can a brand new relationship grow with a baby?

Onceortwive · 2020-12-04 19:09:40

My two month fling wants me to move in when have DS. I live in Dublin and he lives in a town an hour from Leeds so this is a huge problem. Money isn’t an issue as we both have decent jobs and both of us can work wherever within reason BUT it’s easier for me than him if I’m being honest. We broke up as it just wasn’t going anywhere, more on his part than mine but I also can’t say I was gutted when he ended it! Shortly after I realise we have DS. Since then he’s been keen to talk about what’s going to happen and where we could live and on what basis. He’s saying he will pay for it all etc and I would obviously keep my place in Dublin and rent it. I’ve asked for time to think because I’m a bit all over the place at the moment. I’m older than him by 3 years so this isn’t a case of being pressured by an older man or anything. Anyone with any experience as I have no idea what I will be faced with, I’ve heard it gets way easier when they turn 1 so maybe just need to get to that point?!

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