Trigger warning: mentions of suicide.
My sibling, aged 20 had a suicide attempt. We knew they were feeling down due to lockdown but not the extent of their depression. My parents rushed to the hospital but nobody was allowed in due to COVID restrictions so it was an agonising wait to see if they were physically ok.
Luckily they were physically fine. Now my sibling is acting like nothing happened and they are acting 'happier' (for lack of a better word) then they have in months. They are seeing friends again and putting effort into improving their lifestyle such as going for runs etc. I am scared that they are faking being ok, I'm scared that if they are not faking being ok why is there such a rapid change in mood, I am scared to let my guard down for even one second in case they go and attempt again. My sibling won't take any antidepressants and won't see a psychologist.
So far we are making sure my sibling knows we are here for them and we are not letting them be alone unless we know it's when they are on the phone/Zoom to friends. But surely that's not enough? I think they need professional help and I worry that when the momentum of all of their lifestyle changes ends they will be left feeling hopeless again.
I feel completely out of my depth. I have read lots of resources which have been helpful in knowing what to say but I'm still feeling overwhelmed and confused. Does anyone have any advice?
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*TRIGGER WARNING: MENTIONS OF SUICIDE* My sibling had a suicide attempt
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ejrufjeuihtrtigjrt · 04/12/2020 11:55
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