So we have lots of funny chat on here about dating disasters and more serious ones about red flag behaviour but not seen a definite list of traits which add up to make a decent person
I'll start the ball rolling :
People who ask you about yourself and appear genuinely interested
They remember what you said and show interest frequently, not just in the early days before they've got you.
Someone who is self aware and able to see their flaws and weaknesses, be honest about them and try to change them.
Someone who is respectful to everyone, not just when they want something or are attracted to someone.
Someone who is in a clear place to start something with someone new, (not hankering after or closely linked to exes as best friends or living with an ex.)
Someone who is going to enhance your life, not make work for you
Someone who can show empathy and compassion
Someone who is open and honest
Someone who is solvent
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What are your Criteria for dating decent people ?
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famousforwrongreason · 02/12/2020 01:17
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