Hey
My dh and me have been having issues for a while and are 4 weeks into counselling. He's told me he wants more intimacy which I find it hard to do as we have a house full of kids he thinks thats an excuse. He feels disconnected from me but what he says really gets him feeling insecure and this bit he cant move on from is my past relationships. Over the years I've lied about and made him feel like I'm hiding something but I'm not I'm just uncomfortable and then i lie and this makes him feel I'm hiding something. We go around circles. He's says he feels very insecure in our marriage and unloved. I know I have a lot to work on that. I get caught up put him last but I'm willing to try he says now he's not that it's over. I cant accept this I feel so hurt i feel awful & cant cope without him, us. We have been together for 20+ years have & 3 children. Any advice welcome
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Hes says it's over
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Kidsdub · 28/10/2020 15:35
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