I have just sold my house last week and split the equity 50/50 with my ex husband. He was giving me maintence in a way by paying a part of the mortgage until it obviously sold, he messaged me last night to say he will not give me any maintence and instead wants the kids 50/50. This wont work as it isn't in the best interest of the children especially my DD (10) as I always have to encourage her to go to her dads anyway as she cries when she has to go, says she hates him etc. As well as that we have moved 20 mins away so she is starting new clubs dance, gymnastics etc on the nights she is with me.
He currently has them twice one week and three nights the next.
We split as he left me, he had cheated numerous times and was alcohol dependent. I feel so upset today as I have been blamed for it all saying i drove him to do those things.
I don't care about the maintenance now but dont want to make my kids go there any more than they do 😥
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Festivalgirl83 · 28/10/2020 09:51
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