Been together a long time.
Sex has become so boring and mechanical and he just doesn't seem to care no matter how much I bring it up.
There's no flirting, not much touching, or connection on his part. It's just roll on roll off or get behind roll off .
I can't remember exactly how things were in years past, but I do remember feeling that he fancied me, wanted me. I don't feel that now. It feels like it's a duty for him or a physical need for release.
I'm really starting to resent it and I feel like refusing to have sex from now on. I know that won't help matters and will likely damage the relationship, but he just doesn't care. He just denies it, says he will make effort, says he still fancies me (how?!).
Seems like a catch 22.
Has anyone's relationship come back from a situation like this?
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Don't want sex anymore cause it's so boring
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agertha · 25/10/2020 10:24
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