Please bear with me , I came out of an abusive relationship 6 months ago where I kept everything to myself, so now I like to ask for advice.
I have been dating a man (mr P) for 3 months who seems great. He seems to be a safe, kind, easy going man. We are getting on well and his family asked me round for dinner. When we were there, after four beers he said I love you. I felt like saying it back but I didn't, I freaked out because I know about love bombing. Is this an example of it?
The next day he asked me about it and I pretended I didn't remember as I was "drunk" but I remembered clear as day. I have fallen for him and I want to say I love you, however I'm aware this is the honey moon phase. Due to my last relationship, I am being very cautious and trying to keep my self worth and eyes wide open.
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Too soon saying I love you ? Red flag ?
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Hammy93 · 14/09/2020 22:38
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