I AM FUMING.
DH and I have a 3 year old DS. Husband has terrible insomnia (for some context). DS woke up at 5:30 before Gro clock turns yellow at 6:30. He comes in our bedroom. I ask if he needs the toilet and I walk him back to the hall to take to toilet and then bed. DS is grouchy and upset. He asks where daddy is. DH swoops in from upstairs spare room where he often retreats to in the middle of the night as he has trouble sleeping. I was dealing with it but ok fine... I go back to bed. DH takes son up to spare room to sleep with him. I'm fuming. DS consistently early riser. Have been working on Gro clock and getting to stay in his room until it says it's time. DH constantly struggles with saying no. Constantly gives in to DS demands. I'm fed up. I don't know why DH acts like a grandparent rather than a parent. Why can't he just give a consistent message when we agree on a set of rules. I'm so sick of discussing it with him. Am I unreasonable to feel it disrespects me? Like all the work I put in doesn't matter? DS has always favoured his dad and always turns to him to see if he gets a different response. I'm at my wits end! I'm not sure if I need advice or just a fucking hug. Will be discussing with husband shortly when he comes downstairs.
DH is lovely man btw and very involved loving dad but co-parenting with him has been really challenging as we differ in our styles...
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gigi556 · 10/09/2020 06:37
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