To everyone that meets my husband he is charming good looking and funny everything you'd want in a man he used to be that to me too but now I see him for what he is..we've been together for 5 years married for 2- in that time he's cooked for me twice- very rarely pays for anything and gives me £250 a month towards all the household bills- if we go anywhere in his van he works out the petrol money and asks me for half- I paid for the wedding although he did say at the time he would 'contribute' and didn't- he takes poppers on a regular basis- never kisses or cuddles me after sex- says I used to be fun- he would like to watch me having sex with other men as it's 'just sex' there so much more I could say- I left him last month- got a flat and felt happy then he hoovered next back in- bought me flowers- told me he couldn't live without him and is I was making him miserable by not being there- I still have the flat and I need the courage to leave- he makes me feel so guilty for putting my needs before his. He tells me no one would believe me if I told them what he is really like behind the facade- I need the strength to leave and to stay away from him.
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