Just a wee bit of an update.
Just been with ex husband so he can see girls. He was being very controlling of them and says he has the right to parent as he likes as he’s had advice. Also said he’s put in to divorce me for unreasonable behaviour. I’m absolutely gobsmacked.
In other news, his dad said to one of my builders that I’m a psycho. Police will speak to builder and go round speak to him.
I just despair. I’m exhausted from a few hours of him and his excessive and shouty controlling parenting
He’s saying it’s 2020 and he will get whatever custody he likes unsupervised which is one night a week and every other weekend.
Also, he has managed somehow to get himself on the committee of local football team in order to see our eldest child who might start at that team. And has delighted in telling me about his really good friends who manage the others.
Honestly feel like I’ve been up all night on an emotional rollercoaster.
Is this stuff right?
How can I make it stop. I just can’t cope with it.
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damnthisvirusandmarriage · 29/08/2020 15:47
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