Name changes for obvious reasons.
Seeking advice and a bit of a handhold.
Final straw today - 'D'H snapped at me over something insignificant, pushed me and put his hands around my neck in front of 8 month old DD. It scared her and made her cry.
He has been aggressive towards me on and off for the past two years - always enough to scare me but never enough to hurt me properly.
I bundled our things into the car and have come to my parents, around 300 miles away.
My pet is terminally ill and I've had to leave her with him - it's too much for her to make the journey and unfair to unsettle her. For all his faults, he will treat her and look after her well but I feel horrific for leaving her.
I've told him I want space right now. SIL knows I plan to leave him and is supportive but I've told no one else.
I'm so scared that I will have to hand DD over to him for contact. I will stay in the same area as my parents and I hate the thought of her being so far away so young. She is EBF and it's hit and miss if she'll take a bottle. We also co sleep and she won't settle for him. The longest I've been away from her is 2hrs.
She's now asleep and I'm just lead next to her in bits just feeling so sad. I hate him for putting DD and me I this position.
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HotPotatoHotPotato · 23/08/2020 21:10
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