Things have been very different for my partner and I since we had a baby. She was a prem and we spent a few months in hospital. Since she has been home, I find that I cannot stand my partner, he gets on every inch of my nerves 70% of the time. I thought it was due to lack of sleep, new baby, PnD but, it's been ages and he still triggers me in certain situations. I don't know if I've lost respect for him? He works and I don't, but we both pay equal share of rent and everything is split in half, yet I make dinner every night for him and us, I clean, I look after baby all the time (a given of course, not complaining) and he comes home to be treated like a king. He complains that he is knackered from work or is tired and I just want to scream 'but you are not working for us, you are working to pay your half of the rent . He can't afford to pay more than his share and the promise of him looking after us haas never manifested. He did does things that get to me a lot of the times, constantly playing golf on his phone and if he loses he swears and punches the sofa, the health visitor popped round once and was talking to him and he said ' one minute whilst I take this shot of golf on my phone' , I found that so disrespectful and immature. I'm just fed up, I am not attracted to him anymore and if we were to ever work, a lot of things need to change. I loved cities last year with him and it won't be that easy for me to leave and move back, I just want to know if this is anywhere near normal or any tips on what I can do? We both care and love our baby more than anything and she is loved, I'm just tired of being in a loveless relationship.
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