I'm with my partner for 3 and half years. He proposed 2 years ago. Since then our relationship turned sexless. Certainly not from my side. He's just not interested in sex. I think he might have a death grip. Sex with him was always unfilling for me with him because he had so much love for his hand.
He's a good guy but our sex life is gone. It's dead. It been 18 months since we last had sex. I talked to him last summer about the dry spell a d nothing changed.
Not only is there a death grip, I do think there might be some health problems with him. There's a few things making me believe this. Hes overweight. He's not interested in gym or working out. Diabetes runs in his family. His breathing at nighttime is awful and his snoring is bad and loud so I think there might be a few health issues there. Also he doesn't brush his teeth before bed. So that's another issue for me. Or that was the case when we were sleeping together. We don't live together and the lockdown was good for me and he was banned from coming over nd sleeping with me. He used to stay over twice a week with me. Not once in 18 months did we have sex together. God, it was awful. I encouraged him to go to the doctor a few times but he won't listen to me. So to think there's ED problems with him (either through death grip or health problems) and he doesn't care to help himself. He doesn't care of we share a sex life together. I encouraged him to go to the dentist too but he's not listening to me. He's not looking after his health. It's huge turn off for me. So theres a combination of things that's wrong with this relationship and with this man. I thought about this so much over the weekend. There's no fixing this relationship. Not any more. I definitely want to call it a day. I am absolutely dreading the dumping talk but I will have to do it.
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How to dump him
YellowWave · 26/07/2020 00:09
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