Mine is. We have two children together, one of which is also on the spectrum.
I love him dearly but do find it frustrating sometimes.
He doesn't completely get me
He refuses to make any changes to better our lives, moving outside this Burrough for example (we are in desperate need of more space and a less pricey area)
He doesn't talk about his emotions so there no transparency on his part whereas I'm a communicator and need to be able to discuss issues and talk openly. His lack of transparency comes off as him being secretive. I find out about things by mistake that we probably should have spoken about.
If there's a problem at work he doesn't face it head on he just bottles things up and becomes grumpy.
Because he doesn't get humour and sarcasm he's always on the defensive and thinks people (me) are mocking him.
He has lots of wonderful qualities of course otherwise I wouldn't be with him.
I just wanted to vent really.
Anybody else?
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Anybody else with a DP/DH on the spectrum find it hard sometimes?
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Metcon · 15/07/2020 10:07
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