Hi everyone.
I wanted to see what people’s thoughts were on something. I’m most likely being really silly but maybe need an opinion.
Six weeks ago I began chatting to someone via a social media platform. We exchanged numbers and clearly had a connection or “clicked”. The messages went to phone calls and long conversations to FaceTime calls.
She then invited me to go and stay with her as I live a distance away from her and agreed to that. We met last week and I couldn’t believe how beautiful she was and how much we got on. I came home on Thursday after agreeing with her not to put a label on what was going on and to take things slowly. Which due to the distance is just going to have to be the case.
Friday went by as normal, texts, phones calls and FaceTime calls. Saturday I spoke to her in the morning and then she went to a party. She came home later and called me explaining she wasn’t feeling well and was feeling sick after drinking too much at the party. If I’m honest I wanted to drive down to her so I could look after her. The next day I spoke to her in the morning via FaceTime, when I got home she FaceTimed me again. When on a walk I called her and then I spoke to her before bed. All of the calls have been cut shorter than what they were before we met though.
Now this is going to sound really stupid but would you say she is still into me, I mean I like this girl a lot. She is beautiful, smart, intelligent, funny, kind and caring. We have similar taste in music and tv, she likes me how I look and actually think she could be the one and I don’t want to do anything to put her off. Obviously telling her this is a big no no and saying anything like this too soon maybe put her off.
So my questions are, do you all think she is into me am I being daft for worrying about it and how do I keep her interested in me and what I have to offer without over stepping the mark and wanting too much to soon.
Can I ask her directly how much she likes me or is this a big no no too? I want to let her know how much I like her but not sure how I do this and be subtle at the same time!
Thanks all in advance. I’m not a weirdo or anything like that I’m just a guy who wants this to work...
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ThatGuy44 · 29/06/2020 02:49
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