I could so with some advice, I have been divorced for 5 years now and I have 2 children an 8 and a 9 year old. My ex husband was very manipulative and controlling and I still and probably always will carry a fair amount of baggage around with me regarding that. Anyway about 4 years ago I met a lovely man who had been in a similar situation to me and is therefore very understanding of my many issues regarding relationships. His house has been on the market for quite some time and he finally has a buyer (he is selling it as it is part of his divorce settlement) so we are in a position now that he could either move in with me or rent a property. I really want to believe that after all this time I am ready to move in with another man but I am scared it all goes wrong. My ex husband turned out to be such a jerk once we started living together and got married. My children adore my partner so they are not the issue it is me. He is hesitating too as we are both feeling once bitten twice shy. We have a loving relationship and have been on holiday together etc but moving in? I just dont know ...
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