I tried to do something good for my DH but I wish I hadn’t bothered.
DH has 3 children 2 with EXw 1 from a very brief relationship. He’s spent the morning at Ex’s with his DD as she won’t let her come here due to virus. ( but there’s a long history there) He hasn’t heard nothing from his other two not a card or text. They do live miles away though.
I got DH a card and presents from me and my two children to show appreciation he hasn’t even said thanks which has hurt me. I know he was struggling today as it’s the anniversary of his dads death also.
Tonight I accidentally put something in the bin he needed I don’t really recall seeing it on the worktop so told him it wasn’t there in first place. I then looked through bin and found it. He got angry I know it wasn’t about the item in the bin really he’s hurt about his kids ect. He’s gone to bed in a huff I’m hurt because he didn’t say thanks for what we did for him today. I’ve apologised for putting item in bin I’m now sleeping on sofa because I feel I don’t want to go up to bed. I’m not sure really why I’m putting it here but just wanted to rant and cry. I hate Father’s Day anyway as it brings back some horrible memories for me and I’ve never had a father anyway.
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peonyfairy03 · 21/06/2020 23:14
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