My mum is driving round the bend and I don’t know how to react to her.
But of background. I moved back in last year as I fled from domestic abuse. It was meant to be temporary but due to husband not willing to co-operate or move out of house so me and dd (4) can go back or sell etc etc I’m here whilst it goes through the courts.
I’ve discovered since being here that my mum was emotionally neglectful my Whole childhood. Probably the reason I got into that abusive marriage. Anyway I’m pissed off all the time with her. She doesn’t have a clue. She is not as bad as she was but she irritates me, constantly pecking at me and criticising what I dress dd in for example. I’m just so annoyed with her for neglecting my needs. Telling her does nothing as she just denies. For example she used to put her foot down in the car and drive fast, sometimes at a wall if she was angry at me as a teenager. I’d forgotten about it all. I never put this together with my anxiety as a young adult.
She puts me into fight or flight now, which means I’m constantly irritated. I don’t know how long the court process will take and I’m struggling to hold it in.
What can I do??
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Fightingback16 · 18/06/2020 13:33
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