I've had enough.
I am absolutely sick of married/partnered men declaring 'feelings' for me.
I am sick of never being 'enough' for anyone I have a relationship with.
I've never had a good relationship and no one has ever 'fallen in love' with me.
When I was younger, I just assumed that it would happen one day. Now that I'm older I'm faced with the horrible realisation that it won't.
I get the impression that men think I should just be grateful for any attention they show me. Like the lack of love/affection/respect is the price I pay for not being young, slim and attractive.
I feel like I'm viewed as 'subwoman'. Like there's always a subtext of:
Of course I don't love you, look at you...
Of course I'm going to look other women, look at you...
And if I say anything...
Of course you're objecting, look at you, you're just jealous...
Just had enough.
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Pintofbeer · 13/06/2020 06:08
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