It feels like my H would rather be doing any number of things other than being with me and the kids. Looking after them and doing things with them and helping with the day to day running of the house just aren’t priorities.
We’ve had many chats about this and he always says he will do more but never does. Sometimes he asks if he can help but usually it’s gone past the point where I actually needed help, like I could have done with it about an hour ago.
He just gets on with his own activities and ‘jobs’ which aren’t things that properly need doing, but he wants to do them. I feel like I just run round after him all day cleaning up his mess and fetching him things.
I’m just completed worn out with it all and needed a vent.
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UpsideDownCake30 · 03/06/2020 20:28
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