In my 50’s and happily married. Worked with someone in my late teens/early 20’s who was seven years older than me who, looking back, I was definitely in love with, but also saw as a kind of father figure. I had a boyfriend my age at the time. I let this man slip through my fingers and saw him in my dreams for years and years. Strange thing to say- but it’s rare for me to fancy anyone. He’s married and happy.
My husband introduced me again to him today as he’s doing business with him. After 35 years I felt exactly the same. Talking to him this time I felt his equal, not an immature girl. I have no idea if he felt the same back then, but my gut at the time told me he did.
Meeting him today really shocked me because after 35 years the chemistry was still palpable. Has anyone had similar?
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Attracted to someone again after 35 years
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Ibizafun · 03/06/2020 19:27
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