DP and I had two children, DS(2yo) DD(newborn). DP also has adult daughter (I will refer to as DSD for sake of post but I don't have a relationship with her).
When DS was born DSD nose was very out of joint and took nothing to do with him, basically didn't acknowledge and when she did it was fairly nasty. She since has had quite a distant and strained relationship with DP.
DD was born little over a month ago and her attitude has been very different. She sent two gifts, one clearly for a baby and one which could be for a baby or toddler. More I think about it I think they were both aimed at DD. Over past few weeks she's showed a lot of interest and has been texting asking about children, or so I though.
It's now quite clear to me that she's over ever been asking about DD and still isn't really acknowledging DS.
Any advice? DP is so pleased she's now having some involvement I think he may have rose tinted glasses on and don't see what she's doing, I know I need to tread very carefully with what I say because it is his daughter. Although anything I say he'd deny on her behalf and insist it's not the case.
I was happy to give her a chance but no way am I allowing her to hurt my son like that (he's too young to understand now but it won't always be the case)
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Relative only acknowledging one child.
Cheeseaandbiscuits · 23/05/2020 11:27
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