DH has ptsd and currently is very afraid of coronavirus, shared with me he is afraid all of his loved ones will die from it and it feels very bad for him.
In the past he had the habit of scratching and biting himself and managed to nearly give it up but now returned to it and gets angry at me when I tell him to stop.
He shared his feelings with me but is unwilling to discuss it with others. He has friends who have ptsd (all male). In the past he has discussed other fears (such as fear of terrorism) with them but it was very difficult for him and he was surprised they did not laugh at him.
He will not discuss his fear of coronavirus with them. In fact he has even hinted that he wants his freedom back and is not a bit afraid of the coronavirus (not true at all).
I tried to encourage him to discuss it with them but he just told me that I do not understand what it is like to be a man and that other men feel it is unbecoming a man to be afraid of coronavirus.
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PTSD, Coronavirus + question for men
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Flyingfish2019 · 23/05/2020 08:51
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