I live at home with my mother. We usually get on well. I have a brother living at home too. He went out last weekend and stayed with his friends. He came home on the Sunday. He went to bed on Sunday evening. He is still in bed, today on Wednesday. It wasn't the first time he went out for days on end, came home and went to bed for days on end.
Anyways I got up early this morning, and started on my morning routine before work. Just as I was finishing breakfast, my mother was getting up from bed. She came down to the kitchen and she asked me if he got up last night? She me that when I was finishing breakfast and food went down the wrong way. I answered to the best of my ability and I said I don't know. Anyways, she launched right into ranting and raving at me saying things like - sure you wouldnt care if he was dead in the bed.
Thats not true. I was having a piece of food and finishing breakfast. I had to start getting ready for work then. I went to work. I felt she was in a mood and a bit of form with me for some reason. I don't know what that was about. Was it because she didn't see my brother in days? I don't know.
I came home and the house was quite. He was still in bed. She was out walking. There was generally a good vibe between us. I was a bit tired.
She asked me what time I went to bed at last night and I saod it was a late one. She then said he got up for a few minutes earlier today and asked us both to not be in the kitchen tonight so he can cook something to eat. I mean like what is that about, I don't know. What he avoiding us I asked. I then got more of a vibe from her that she was blaming me for him avoiding the kitchen. I don't know what that's about. We usually get on well.
I was tired after my days work and I had a cup of tea just poured and I said OK, and I went to my room. Before I left, she started ranting and shouting at me again, saying that I don't care about him. I went to my room and she followed me in and she started shouting at me in my room. After you call your boyfriend, you can start looking for a flat.
What problem does she have with him? He did nothing on her before? She then said she can hear my calls from the room. (more like its a bit of eases dropping. I caught her last week, standing in the hall when I was on a call in the sitting room and it just looked like she was listening in).
She wouldnt leave me alone this evening. All because her darling son is hungover in the bed. I just had to run from the house. The woman was raging and she's just after making me homeless.
My brother had so many weekends out despite the covid19 restrictions. He didn't care if he caught the virus and brought it home. It was me following all of the guidelines.
Anyways what I do I do? I don't live in a city and I don't have anything with me and there's no homeless shelter any where. Nor do I want to go back home. She made her position clear to me. I'm sitting behind a rock in an empty field.
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