I would really like to know if anyone grew up with parents that didnt especially have a harmonious stable loving relationship, and one or both parents might have been unhappy but as a child (and even now) felt glad they didnt split up?
Im asking this because a lot of people have advised me to leave my husband. We've been married for 3 years, Ive had problems with him, and have suspected him of starting (Not having) an affair with someone that got cut short.
Consequently Im really sad, and though I dont have any real evidence of him cheating on me, I dont want to end the marriage.
My parents argued a lot throughout my childhood, I can remember sitting on the stairs listening. My mother didnt always look happy. But I can remember feeling scared about them breaking up when i was young.
Whereas so many people have recently said to me that they WISHED their arguing parents had broken up. I cant imagine that doesnt shake up a child unless the marriage is really abusive - either verbally or physically.
At the moment, dh and I are getting along well and my toddler is really happy. But at the back of my mind I have the affair I never quite discovered haunting me, and I do find myself sad or crying alone in the bathroom. But does this really warrant divorce?
I dont actually know that this post makes much sense....
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anyone had argumentative parents that DIDNT divorce?
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vannah · 18/09/2007 21:29
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