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Caught stalking a guy on facebook

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TwoOpenOneClosed Mon 11-May-20 12:18:52

I'm absolutely mortified, I accidently sent a message to his business facebook page last night thought I'd deleted it but have received a message from him this morning replying to it blush god how embarrassing
Please tell me I'm not the only one to have made myself look like a mad bunny boiler! I'm really not I was just really bored and pressed the wrong button 🙈

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OnlyJudyCanJudgeMe Mon 11-May-20 12:26:37

How do you “accidentally”message someone?
Do you know him in real life? If not, block him. Save making that mistake again!

VettiyaIruken Mon 11-May-20 12:28:25

You typed a message and meant to delete it but pressed send instead?
What did your message say?

UpToonGirl Mon 11-May-20 12:29:26

What did the message say? Cringing for you!

TwoOpenOneClosed Mon 11-May-20 12:33:07

No I didn't type a message there were 3 of those pre filled question buttons and I accidently pressed one and it sent before I realised what I'd done and then it was too late 🤐

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copycopypaste Mon 11-May-20 12:34:56

That's not too bad then. It's not like you said you'd like to see him naked or something like that and his business partner picked it up grin

Notapheasantplucker Mon 11-May-20 12:35:47

Ahh, I'm cringing for you too😖 grin

What did he seem like in his reply? Normal?

UpToonGirl Mon 11-May-20 12:36:36

What type of business? Maybe you need to play along and act like you meant to send the question. Would the guy automatically think you were stalking him?

Namechangex10000 Mon 11-May-20 12:37:21

I’d have to brazen it out with a lie!!! Oooh I didn’t realise this was YOU, I need xyz service....and then move

ChandlerIsTheBestFriend Mon 11-May-20 12:37:41

So you just respond and pretend it was a genuine enquiry. Surely he’ll think that’s what it was so no reason to be mortified?

copycopypaste Mon 11-May-20 12:38:28

If he's fitting fake grass or a builder you could say you were looking for a friend or thinking if having work done. You're a bit buggered if he makes fetish latex gear for gay men tho

SpillTheTeaa Mon 11-May-20 12:56:06

Right, pack all your belongings up and move to another country.

secretrugbyfan Mon 11-May-20 13:04:50

"You're a bit buggered if he makes fetish latex gear for gay men tho"

But not as buggered as said men in said gear....

KonTikki Mon 11-May-20 13:14:02

Like your sense of humour 😂

Ernieshere Mon 11-May-20 13:15:42


franfine Mon 11-May-20 13:16:07

But does he know you?

TwoOpenOneClosed Mon 11-May-20 13:16:57

The reply was basically answering my 'query' which he sent me knowing full well it was me having fucked up 100% as I already know the answer and really don't need to ask him on facebook
I just can't stop cringing that he knows what I've done oh I wish I could pack my bags and leave the country @SpillTheTeaa

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TwoOpenOneClosed Mon 11-May-20 13:22:07

Sorry should say yes he knows me we had a bit of a fwb relationship until he ended it a couple of weeks ago and we have been in contact with each other since
At least I don't have to face him ever again 😐

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incognitomum Mon 11-May-20 13:22:48

Do you have a child/cat/monkey you could blame it on?

NoMoreDickheads Mon 11-May-20 13:27:30

I would just not mention it and he mightn't think much of it, he'd probably realize it's a mistake/bug. x

TwoOpenOneClosed Mon 11-May-20 13:28:08

Yeah I could blame the cat he always walks across the keyboard when I'm trying to type something I think you're onto something @Incognitomum 🤔 or I could just go incognito like you for the rest of my life 🤣

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Reginabambina Mon 11-May-20 13:28:54

If you’ve already slept with him and decided not to pursue a relationship then why does it matter?

MsAdorabelleDearheartVonLipwig Mon 11-May-20 13:44:57

Are you sure it wasn’t an automated response?

Isitsixoclockalready Mon 11-May-20 13:47:37

I'd just forget it and move on.

Goatinthegarden Mon 11-May-20 13:52:18

Brazen it out fully and say something like, ‘oops silly me, was just looking for a decent picture of you to show my girlfriends my most recent FWB. Definitely gave myself away there!’

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