My girlfriend has recently brown up with me. We dated for about 9 months following a breakup with her ex. She always showered me with affection and was always telling me how much she loved me, that she was so lucky to have me and couldn't believe we were together. We didn't argue to cause the sudden breakup. Literally one day she was acting as normal saying all these usual things to me and acting in her usual attentive manner and the following day she stopped followed out of the blue with a message saying she loves me but still loves her ex and can't be with me as she can't give me what I deserve. I am so confused it came out of nowhere. I can't talk to her about it, we haven't spoken since other than me trying to respond in a dignified manner. I don't want to question her about it as I want to respect her decision and don't want to run the risk of driving her further away by appearing desperate or needy. I am just confused with what has happened and need help to understand.
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