So long story I have been seeing a bloke pre lockdown and all was great I’d see him on my free weekends (was great I’d see him on my free weekends (he’s not been around my kids made that mistake once before) we hadn’t go to the exclusive part before we got trapped in lockdown but carried in talking phoning etc which has been fine.. with chats about when we’re allowed out going out him coming over! Then this week on Wednesday whilst I’m at work he sends a txt to say his ex has been in contact and she’s moving back and wants to see him. And he’s confused and doesn’t want to talk to me as he doesn’t want to hurt me and he’s confused! So even though I’m upset I say fine and Thankyou for letting me know. Then the next day txts to say he can’t stop thinking about me to which I tell him he need to figure out what he wants! Now tonight he turned up at my house unexpected saying he cAnt stop thinking about me! But can’t promise what will happen etc when his ex comes back but atm has no intentions of starting that up again and wants to get to know me so like a twat I sleep with him but now I’m panicked because he could change his mind again soon... can someone who still has feelings for there ex actually fall for someone else or am I kidding myself? not been around my kids made that mistake once before) we hadn’t go to the exclusive part before we got trapped in lockdown but carried in talking phoning etc which has been fine.. with chats about when we’re allowed out going out him coming over! Then this week on Wednesday whilst I’m at work he sends a txt to say his ex has been in contact and she’s moving back and wants to see him. And he’s confused and doesn’t want to talk to me as he doesn’t want to hurt me and he’s confused! So even though I’m upset I say fine and Thankyou for letting me know. Then the next day txts to say he can’t stop thinking about me to which I tell him he need to figure out what he wants! Now tonight he turned up at my house unexpected saying he cAnt stop thinking about me! But can’t promise what will happen etc when his ex comes back but atm has no intentions of starting that up again and wants to get to know me so like a twat I sleep with him but now I’m panicked because he could change his mind again soon... can someone who still has feelings for there ex actually fall for someone else or am I kidding myself?
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