Hi all I’ve posted before but slightly changed subject ,
So basically I think my partner has signs of Aspergers /autism
He seriously lacks empathy towards me can never see where I’m coming from , he never tells me he loves me unless I say it even then he hesitant to let his pride drop to say it , he’s always around me like a child touching me poking me until I end up really shouting at him which was obviously his goal while he walks off all proud and I’m left really emotional and frustrated he hates confrontation so we can never discuss our problems ever he sits there in silence doesn’t know what to say to me, I’ve left him a couple times and tbh I don’t think he cared if anything he thought it was a vacation for himself to do what he wanted to do , we also have kids together he’s an amazing dad but there’s no discipline where he’s concerned so I’m the bad mom he’s the fun dad ? Is anyone had anything fimiliar ? He also has no friends , his family are close to him because there that type of family otherwise he wouldn’t even bother ? He never wants to go out if he had it his way we will stay in forever he never suggests places even when I’m paying he’d just rather sit inside on his phone then the thought of going out even though when we’re out we have a good time , I’m just at loss ?? Can anyone help ?
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Is anyone else’s partner like this ?
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Nojoke12 · 28/04/2020 21:27
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